Relational & Emotional Intelligence Coaching

For people ready to change how they show up in love, work, and life

Rewrite Your story & lead with truth

You don’t need another template for success. You need a clear understanding of your patterns—and a practical way to change them. I help individuals and couples build emotional awareness and better communication for healthier relationships.

The story you've been living

Many of us live by unexamined stories in our mind that keep us stuck. When you understand your own design and shadows, you can make decisions that feel right, and lead your life and relationships with clarity.

where that story came from

  • Uncover the Script We identify the stories about yourself and others that you’re carrying from family, culture, or past experiences.

  • Call in Honest Dialogue We practice clear communication and boundary-setting so your relationships reflect who you are now.

  • Map Your Next Moves Using Human Design and shadow work, we create a plan that matches your energy, values, and real-life constraints.

What We Rewrite—And What We Keep

This work brings together life transition coaching, emotional intelligence, Human Design, and practical shadow work—always grounded in what your nervous system and relationships can realistically hold.

Rewrite Your Story

Ongoing 1:1 coaching to change the patterns that keep showing up and build emotional skills you can actually use.

Get Honest Together

Couples sessions for clearer communication, stronger boundaries, and fewer repeat arguments.

Your Human Design

A one-time deep dive into your design and shadow patterns—with practical takeaways you can start using right away.

How this Coaching works

Hi, I’m Stephen…

I don’t coach from theory alone. I coach from lived experience—because I’ve had to rebuild my life more than once.

As a 6/2 Emotional Projector with LAX of Migration, I’m here to ask better questions, share tools like Human Design, and hold space for you to rewrite your story.

Get your free Human Design chart

Not sure where to start? Grab your free chart and get the basics: your Type, Strategy, and Authority.

Free Human Design Chart with Keynotes | Healing by Design Coaching

Free Human Design Chart

Get a quick 1-page PDF overview of your Human Design: Type, Signature, Strategy, Authority, Profile, Definition, and Incarnation Cross.

Want Your Full HD Report?

This 54-page PDF breaks down your Strategy + Authority and key chart themes so you can make decisions with less second-guessing.

Proof It's working

Here's what people notice when they stop guessing and start working with practical tools.

"Stephen is a fantastic coach! The techniques and insight he has taught me, have been life changing!"

Cody B.

"Stephen is both empathic & firm. He has assisted me in more ways than I can even articulate. I am forever grateful for him."

Megan H.

“Working with Stephen helped me slow down, communicate better, and stop blaming myself every time things went wrong."

James J.